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Writer's picturePhilippe Vergez

CHIVALRY IN THE MODERN WORLD

Updated: Nov 17

The Gentleman’s Art of Living


Gentleman sitting on a bench, focusing on his next action.

Chivalry, once rooted in the codes of medieval knighthood, has evolved into something far more profound in today’s world. It’s not about galloping on horseback, clad in armor, but about embodying principles of respect, integrity, and grace in everyday life. The modern-day gentleman is not defined by a tailored suit, a meticulously groomed beard, or the perfect moustache. These are mere accessories—fleeting styles that shift with time. True gentlemanliness is a state of mind, an art de vivre that transcends appearance. A gentleman is someone who moves through the world with quiet confidence and humility. He opens doors, but not to impress. He listens, not to respond but to understand. His actions are shaped by empathy, and his words are chosen with care, always leaving space for others to feel heard and valued. He knows that strength lies not in dominating others, but in lifting them up, in making them feel safe and respected, whether they be a stranger on the street or someone dear to his heart. In essence, chivalry today is not about grand gestures, but about the small acts of kindness and honor that punctuate a life lived with purpose and respect. To be a gentleman is to embrace these values not out of obligation, but because they resonate deep within. It’s an ongoing commitment to show up as one's best self, not for accolades, but because it's the right way to move through the world.

Libertas, Amoris, Respectus, Exaltatio—Freedom, Love, Respect, and Elevation.  These are the four pillars of a successful relationship and the cornerstones of the  Gentlemen’s Code of Honor. A ring only a few can wear.

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